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2.3 Safety

Here you will find useful information about safety in sex work

  • 2.3.1 Customer screening / selection of customers

    You should develop a personal, ideally multi-level customer selection to check that you are dealing with a reputable customer. You have to learn to distinguish good and reputable customers from untrus...

  • 2.3.2 Cover and emergency plan

    If you receive alone in an apartment, but also visit a hotel, you should have prepared an emergency plan and ideally have yourself covered, i.e. protected (see also chapter 1.6 Cover). A cover is a pe...

  • 2.3.3 Handover of money

    The money transfer should be discreet at the beginning of the date; it is best to count them briefly in the presence of the customer, even if the money is in an envelope. If the appointment on site is...

  • 2.3.4 How do I protect my identity on the Internet

    In the age of the Internet, one should be aware of the dangers of an outing and not leave too many traces on the Internet. Online security is therefore an important issue. Almost everyone who travels ...

  • 2.3.5 Secret video recordings

    Be careful not to be filmed secretly during a customer appointment. In a foreign environment, look for a small red light, which is usually a reference to a web camera on the computer or in the cell ph...

  • 2.3.6 Self Defense

    If you carry a weapon with you, be it a knife or tear gas, be aware that a perpetrator can take it and point it against you. Take a self-defense course that suits your needs. This makes you feel more ...

  • 2.3.7 what to do in case of coercion and violence

    Call the police (phone number 110) or ask your confidant. Write everything down as precisely as possible: when and where what happened (date, time, place), how many people were involved, how can you i...

  • 2.3.8 Directory of advice centers - professional association

    In our Kaufmich magazine you will find a selection of specialist advice centers for sex workers in Germany. https://www.kaufmich.com/magazin/beratungsstellen-adressen/ Sex workers are organized in the...